Feeling Stuck?
- Meirryland

- Aug 25, 2019
- 2 min read
Updated: Sep 4, 2019
Have you ever feel like you are stuck in a relationship, in a job or in life in general? "Should I change a new job?", "Should I end a relationship?", "Should I start a new life in a foreign country?"... Like it or not, it is part of life process that me, you, and everyone have to go through. Most of the time we feel stuck because of Metathesiophobia - fear of change. We feel that we do not have control over our lives when come to changes. We fear the uncertainty, fear of loneliness, we afraid what failure might do to us...
When the situation is getting severe, we can find ourselves feeling overwhelmed, demotivated and demoralized. But.. how to unstuck ourselves? The best way to unstuck is to TAKE ACTION NOW.
1. Do not avoid, face it. It takes courage to live our life the way we want.
2. Do not dwell in the past. Stop sulking and reminiscing, let it go, let it be...
3. Be in the present moment. But how...? The easiest way is to constantly remind ourselves: "am I in the present moment?" this will instantly pull your wandering mind back into the present moment.
4. Dunno what you want? It's okay to get lost, it is the process of finding your true passion and true self.
5. Dunno where to start? Try new things, you will find a lot of new possibilities.
6. Do not afraid of failures, failures unleash our true potential and greatest strengths so keep trying!
7. Do not worry about what others think of you. BE YOURSELF, just focus on being the best version of yourself.
Make progress everyday, no matter how big or small. Trust me (i feel you, been there, done that), it's gonna worth every effort. Good Luck! =)




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